
About Course
Welcome to the 90-Day Recovery Course, a comprehensive program designed to guide you through the challenging journey of healing after betrayal or infidelity. This course provides a structured, supportive environment to process your pain, understand the impact of trauma, and rebuild your life with strength and resilience.
Course Overview
This course is divided into three phases, each lasting 30 days, with specific goals and exercises:
Phase 1: Understanding and Processing the Trauma: Focuses on acknowledging the betrayal, understanding the trauma it caused, and developing healthy coping mechanisms.
Phase 2: Emotional Healing and Self-Discovery: Emphasizes emotional processing, self-compassion, and rediscovering your personal identity.
Phase 3: Rebuilding Trust and Moving Forward: Centers on establishing healthy boundaries, fostering self-trust, and creating a fulfilling future.
Phase 1: Understanding and Processing the Trauma (Days 1-30)
This phase is about acknowledging the reality of the betrayal and beginning to process the initial shock and pain. It’s crucial to create a safe space for yourself to feel your emotions without judgment.
Key Topics:
Acknowledging the Betrayal: Facing the reality of what happened.
Understanding Trauma: Learning about the impact of betrayal trauma on your mind and body.
Emotional Regulation: Developing healthy ways to manage intense emotions like anger, sadness, and anxiety.
Self-Care Practices: Implementing daily self-care routines to support your well-being.
Establishing Boundaries: Identifying and setting initial boundaries to protect yourself.
Phase 2: Emotional Healing and Self-Discovery (Days 31-60)
In this phase, you’ll delve deeper into emotional healing and begin the process of self-discovery. This involves understanding your emotional needs, practicing self-compassion, and rediscovering your personal values and goals.
Key Topics:
Processing Grief and Loss: Addressing the grief associated with the betrayal and the loss of the relationship you thought you had.
Self-Compassion and Forgiveness: Cultivating kindness and understanding towards yourself.
Identifying Emotional Needs: Recognizing and prioritizing your emotional well-being.
Rediscovering Your Identity: Exploring your passions, interests, and values independent of the relationship.
Building Self-Esteem: Practicing self-affirmations and engaging in activities that boost your confidence.
Phase 3: Rebuilding Trust and Moving Forward (Days 61-90)
This final phase focuses on rebuilding trust in yourself and creating a foundation for a fulfilling future. This includes setting healthy boundaries, practicing assertive communication, and identifying your goals for the future.
Key Topics:
Rebuilding Self-Trust: Taking actions that align with your values and building confidence in your decisions.
Establishing Healthy Boundaries: Setting clear limits and expectations in all areas of your life.
Assertive Communication: Learning to express your needs and boundaries effectively.
Forgiveness (Optional): Exploring the possibility of forgiveness, whether for yourself or the other person (this is a personal choice and not a requirement).
Creating a Future Vision: Defining your goals and taking steps towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.
This 90-day course offers a structured and supportive framework for healing after betrayal. By engaging with the course materials, participating in exercises, and connecting with others, you can embark on a transformative journey towards recovery, resilience, and a renewed sense of self.
Next Steps
Consider journaling your experiences and insights throughout this course to track your progress and deepen your understanding.
Remember to be patient and kind to yourself during this process. Healing takes time, and there will be ups and downs along the way. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and seek support when you need it.